Forgiveness
Hey everyone I am new to 7 cups and I decided this would be my best option to discuss my love life issues and get the support I need. For the past few months my bf has made a mistake that had made me have a whole new perspective of him and changed our relationship completely. I recently am starting to forgive him because I don’t want to see him as a bad person because of mistakes he has done and I know there’s improvement to him and our relationship. Currently it’s really hard just trusting him but I’m learning to forgive him and make sure our relationship can be stronger from mistakes. Its really hard to keep myself not lashing out on him and pick at little things and self sabotaging myself.
@neatmarii4ta Hi there. I just wanted to say I admire the type of person you are. Your forgiving heart is such a beautiful thing. I am so sorry your boyfriend has done some questionable things that caused a hiccup in the relationship. However, the fact that you want to truly forgive him so the two of you can work things out and move forward is a great step in that happening. Forgiving those who hurt us can be very difficult. Holding grudges can lead to anger and resentment and it just isn't healthy. Remember forgiving those who hurt you is something you are doing for yourself. I am so proud of you for trying and making an effort to do this. Forgiveness can also bring healing. I do hope, however, that your boyfriend is making a continuous effort in rectifying the wrong he did. Wishing you all the best! <3
Thank you so much i appreciate it! Everything you said really uplifted me and just encouraged me to keep looking forward and not look back.