Feeling sick when he touchs
i feel extremely uncomfortable when he touchs me..idk why. Whenever my bf and i get physical i get sick afterwards. I feel so anxious before meeting him because ik that if i meet him he would want to get physical with me. I always makes excuses to not get physical.i told him about this and now he's upset..i feel bad now
please help meee... please give me some advice!!!!
1st off all there is nothing to feel bad about. There could be a lot of things that could be causing you to feel that way such as prior experience, childhood trauma etc. I suggest you talk to a therapist about it. 2nd have an open conversation with your partner. Try doing activities together with no pressure of physical intimacy.
Tbh open conversation is the key. Plus, if your s/o is not willing to put in the work and refuses to understand I suggest you re-evaluate the relationship.
Above all listen to your body and trust it.
Much love 💕
