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Feeling sick when he touchs

simbasky April 28th

i feel extremely uncomfortable when he touchs me..idk why. Whenever my bf and i get physical i get sick afterwards. I feel so anxious before meeting him because ik that if i meet him he would want to get physical with me. I always makes excuses to not get physical.i told him about this and now he's upset..i feel bad now

please help meee... please give me some advice!!!!

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sociableBike4640 April 28th

1st off all there is nothing to feel bad about. There could be a lot of things that could be causing you to feel that way such as prior experience, childhood trauma etc. I suggest you talk to a therapist about it. 2nd have an open conversation with your partner. Try doing activities together with no pressure of physical intimacy.


Tbh open conversation is the key. Plus, if your s/o is not willing to put in the work and refuses to understand I suggest you re-evaluate the relationship.


Above all listen to your body and trust it.


Much love 💕