making friends with girls
im a girl but i have no friends that are girls. i stopped talking to them since middle school because i noticed girls made me insecure, they talk shit about their own friends and other girls, they make fun of other girls and are very judgemental.
i know with guys i feel less insecure but i have no real meaningful relationships and i feel left out in groups of guys.
i think i should make friends with girls instead but its hard to find girls that arent judgemental and hard to talk to. ive made it a goal to make girl friends next school year and ive tried to make girl friends now but theyre honestly harder to talk to than guys.
i would love to have some tips on how to initiate relationships with girls or things that girls talk about.
@turquoiseOcean2127
Hi Ocean
I am proud of you for steering away from people that make you feel insecure, and ridicule others. It sounds like they might not make good friends anyway?
I would look at different times/places to get to know the girls that aren't like that. Maybe they are more quiet or maybe you don't notice them because they are busy doing their own things? Is there a school staff member you feel comfortable you could ask for ideas? They may know of other girls in the same situation and introduce you. What sorts of things are you interested in? Are there clubs/activities you can get involved in to meet people that like the things you do?
