Boyfriend
Tbh my boyfriend is the sweetest person i have ever dated . We have been dating a year and a half . At beginning everything was so good .We were sorted with each other . But as time passed we got into fights ,agruements and evn at the stage where we decided to part ways . But still we can't leave each other and decided to make things work. But each day some or the other way we argue. He loves me alot , I love him a lot but at the same time He is way too much irritating. If I say to him that Pls don't do this he will purposely do that thing And I will lose my temper . And then we start to fight . He says he is not doing that purposely but once I am angry i can't control myself. The whole thing ends with lots of bitter words and crying.
What should I do to make everything normal. What should I do to keep my peace of mind?.
II had an ex once that would do things when I asked him not to.
I would say babe please don't do this or that..and then he would do it.but
So I started using reverse sociology.
Example: (this happened a lot he was very controlling and abusive. )
I would want to go to see my mom but if I said..heyI would like to see mom tomorrow..then he would say no or just take off im the car.
So I started saying things like... Boy I want to rest tomorrow. I just don't feel like seeing mom tomorrow... And then he would..no your going to your mom's..she needs to be seen & taken care of .U just can't not help her..On and on he would go..andI would wake Up the next day..and he would have my clothes out and alarm set..Say U have to go and I'm taking U.
I would act so reluctant. And that is how I could avoid not being overly abused that day.
This could help you out or not. I'm just saying it did me. Anyway maybe this can help or not. But if his doing something U dont want is so bad. Then a talking with a sit down..or some counseling could help.
Stay Gold
I had a conversation with him everytime
g. But he is like I don't remember baby what we had talked about . And this irritates me like anything .
But it was so nice talking to you . Meant a lot
Stay blessed and happy ❤️
