can't stand my SO

@squizzy6

IMO .. Yes ....... in every relationship you will have time when you feel like that.

I saw in an article that love and hate are not opposites but parallel ..... easy to cross back and forth between them sometimes

the opposite of Love is feeling nothing (apathy ).

If you feel nothing for them then you know things are going down hill

Do you feel like your relationship is still improving you [both] as people? Or is it only making you bitter and frustrated every day?

alittle of both

And is he working on the issues with you? or is he unaware of the issues?