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Should i walk away?Is this my fault for confess?

User Profile: amiableAcai8821
amiableAcai8821 May 8th, 2021

Actually i confess to this guy and he is my friend. I told him like this "did i told u before that i have like someone n have a crush on him.Do u know who he is? He is u, i have crush on you.I said that to him because we are in a middle of conversation that he told me that with his attitude he never have a girl to like him. He is a person who don't like to reveal how he feel, When i confess to him, he just only said wow n nothing else?


What does it mean? He also told me once, if there is a a girl like him, he will appreciate it, but at the same time he also feel he is not a right person to be liked by other girl because of his past.I always told him not to think about the past, human deserve to have a chance and its normal for making mistake. He said thnks for comfort me and i said to him there always someone who like u for example i like u. But yaaa he never respond to it or giving an answer.He is really difficult to guess because he not a type of person who start a coversation and reveal his emotion to others.He once told me that even if he like a girls he never said it.Long time ago, he closed with this girl n this girl is his childhood friend.They know for a long time, hanging out together n always do things together n always together.He has feeling to her but never to confess untill that girl being snatched away n proposed by other guy.N now she is married.I don't know how to say this,

i don't know whether i'm being clingy because i really like him to much since we meet for the first time.I always the one who start coversation with him.Asking him can i call u ? Are u busy? Did u have a time?He will call give me a call after i asking that.He always be there for me, helping me.Sharing many things.Yaaa i know i'm being clingy to him.We always talk to each other until 4 a.m. Even after the line cut automatically because it's already have limit.He will call me back.We not use a whatapps call but a normal call.And make me said to him if the line is being cut.I think we should stop, it's a sign for us to go to sleep but everything change after i confess.

After a one week later he show some changes, he stop stalking my status , he always see my status untill the end no matter how busy he was.Even when we on call, and the line being cut.He will call back because we are in the middle conversation but when i listen to him while he talk, hear his story the line being cut and he not call me back.I texr him should we finish it, continue your story but he say sorry that he have something else to do n his friend asking a help so he cannot continue.I ask people, they said i was being rejected softly with this guy, it's hard for me to except it because i want to hear a real n straight rejection from him.

You know what the most funny things i decide to ignored him, not stalking his status because of what he did after to me.After the day i wishing his birthday, i decide this is the last conversation and i need to move on.After a few days later , we not talk, he stalk my status when i post it.And the most funny things here when i accidentaly stalk his status then he stalk n look at mine.What's going on here? Why he do that?He not reveal his feelings but the way he behave like he have feeling for me.I really want to ask directly but i'm afraid making things akward.he is really good person for me.He nice to everyone and always help people when needs him even though he busy with he clubs and so on.I just afraid he was just being nice to me.What i should do? WHAT did u guys think about him?

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User Profile: pinkMap4438
pinkMap4438 May 9th, 2021

Hello, Have you ask him what is his feeling for you?

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User Profile: amiableAcai8821
amiableAcai8821 OP May 9th, 2021

Nope but the sign is obvious @pinkMap4438

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User Profile: easyMoon5662
easyMoon5662 May 10th, 2021

Tbh, he likes u. But a few guys just have a hard time bringing it out becoz of the past. Some of us jus don't feel like we deserve to b loved so when u tell a guy that feels this way, his mind immediately jumps to "ur saying u like me just to make me feel better" so even if u truly like him u need to make him believe that u won't turn ur back on him. "I'm also this kind of guy soo thats the best I can say"