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New Feelings

User Profile: affectionateAvocado5039
affectionateAvocado5039 March 27th, 2024

I met a guy online and we went out on a date. We both generally and I think genuinely enjoyed it so much. I left the date thinking it went so well, but then the next day I started overthinking. I hate it when I like someone, it starts consuming me. Eventually lack of contact gets to me and it bums me out. I don't know if anyone can relate, but I just wanted to share.

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 March 28th, 2024

@affectionateAvocado5039

I think in dating many become over thinkers ...  we meet and go out and we enjoy ourselves and wonder if they did too ....we start thinking a lot about night play by play and then the how long til they call is measured no one knows what is the right time.   It is very nerve wracking IMO 

if they call immediately are they too pushy ... desperate ? ......   what is the right time / right reason to call ? 

if they wait a couple days we worry it did not go as well as we thought?