Need Advice Please
This morning I found a lot of saved porn on my boyfriend's computer, maybe a month or two ago I had communicated with him that I was not comfortable with him watching porn, the most recent save was the 10th. I also found vaguely explicit pictures of his ex girlfriends that he had saved right after we started dating. I have talked with him about it at length and I've decided to stay with him. But it's all so burned into my brain, does anyone have any advice on how to move on from something like this?
Hi @StingRaye✨
Acceptance… that is the way - you have expressed already what you don’t like and it sounds that he continues doing it… Why does it bother you? How did you find this in his computer? What were you looking for there…?
Relationships reflect a lot about ourselves, do you want to “control” him? Why…? His computer is his personal space
I’m writing this from a space of love and I truly wish that you feel happy knowing what you want from this relationship ✨