Lack of sex
Can lack of sex really ruin a relationship?
My gf is always joking that she will have to wait another month before i touch her again or have sex with her. We have been together for almost 3 years already. At the beginning sex wasn't a problem but im not sure what happened. My sex drive just went down a lot. We sometimes get into argument because im just not in the mood.
But when she brings it up i get bothered because then it feels like I'm forced to do it. Kind of like when a parent tells their kid to do the dishes and now they don't want to because they are obligated to do it. Kind of like that. I feel like sex shouldn't be everything in a relationship. Or am I wrong? Advice?
Hi,i can say from my personal experience, I haven't been intimate with my husband almost 2years as I lost all the romantic feelings towards him,i just see him as a friend, maybe your feelings changed in to something just like mine.
Hi @Teona22, Thank you for sharing it. I know it happens with couple, someone get divorced and someone understand and get on with it. And like any decision, we all have to respect it. But if it's because of lack of communication, sharing your feelings, what your needs and wants. I'd say you both should talk.
Hope you are doing well ❤
Hi @azamor02, first of all thank you for reaching out and talk about it. Can sexual attraction or lack of it can improve or ruin a relationship? Yes, most of the time unless both persons from the relationship agreed otherwise.
And communication is the key to any relationship, so I'd suggest you to have an open and honest talk with your partner, and tell them how you feel and let them do the same.
All the best, and please don't hesitate to reach out an active listener if you want to talk. We are here for you ❤