LDR problems need Advice
Some basic info,
We're in a ldr for 7months now
He has a habit of leaving ppl on seen
He loves gaming
Sometimes he's a dry texter
I'll get straight into it now,
So as I mentioned he loves gaming, sometimes when I msg him he just leaves me on seen or say "brb" and leaves for gaming. I've experienced this many timee and it makes me feel ignored, as if he's not interested in talking. The last time it happened I had a feeling of "enough" and told him I'll not msg first now (cuz whenever I did he left for gaming), I told him I'll not start the conversation now, whenever he feels like talking he can come himself, atleast he'll not leave for gaming then.
NOTE : There's no need to doubt his love ik he loves me it's just, he's not meeting my needs and keeping hurting me without realizing.
I WANT TO KNOW IF I DID RIGHT BY MAKING THAT DECISION. IT'S NOT FOREVER I'LL STOP WHEN I'M CONVINCED HE'LL NOT GHOST ME FIR GAMING AGAIN.
@NezukoChan447
I'm sorry to hear that he's not meeting your needs and really neglecting you. I know he loves you a lot but you guys definitely need to have a conversation about this or else he will just continue to unintentionally hurt you every time. You have to let him know how you feel, and if he reacts negatively to it.. then I'm not sure if he's the one for you. Good healthy relationships require lots of communication and I know he loves gaming, but he should also set time aside for you, his girlfriend. You should really also reflect on how long it takes for him to start a conversation. Does he think about you or is it just gaming?
