I’m so stuck

@Vampiregirl9817 This is understandably very hard, but don't forget to celebrate discovering a new part of yourself. However, I find that writing a letter to introduce a difficult conversations a good starting point. Suggestion, you could write a letter detailing this discovery - how you feel about it what it means to you -, share that it doesn't take away from your love for them, and whatever else you may feel important. You could then hand them the letter and ask them to read it when they feel emotionally calm. you can also ask them to read it when you're not around or in front of you, your preference. Same with their response, could also be a letter or a conversation. See how it goes from there and discuss what it means for your relationship and how you want to act on the discovery.

Love,

Rain

Just say it, they will either be ok with it or not.