Bf of 1 year doesnt seem interested in sex
My Bf (26m) and I (26f) have been dating for 11 months now. We used to have sex pretty often, at least once a week. Now we havent had sex in 2 months, ive made little sexual jokes and tried to initiate but i get either rejected or straight ignored. Other than this, our relationship is great, we support each other so much and he always tells me how much he cares and appreciates me. He has been extra stressed lately so i know that could have an effect on his libido. But i cant help but spiral about him no longer being attracted to me or that i do things he doesnt really like and that hes avoiding it. I want to talk with him about it but he always seems to deflect it.
@SadShark18
It looks like some really serious talk between you and him could be recommended.
I believe your needs in a relationship should not be ignored and I don't think avoiding conversation by your boyfriend is any responsible and mature solution.
I think communicating is one of the most important parts of being together. From my experience male libido is usually much more immune to stress or fatigue than female, so the reasons for such a behaviour may vary...
@SadShark18
It is hard in any relationship to have the libido difference... I have experienced this as well and found my partner had a health issue and stress can have an effect as well. I found communicating and coming out and asking is something wrong? or i miss our intimacy etc.
Not the pressure of just initiating and worrying about rejection. If you tell him you are confused about the drop off in your sex life and are open and caring maybe he can share whatever has effected his libido.