how to find if she has a crush on me (I m a guy)

I think the only way you can find out with any certainty is talking to her :) I know it probably sounds really scary, but I really don't think there's any other way. By talking, I don't necessarily mean in person, there are a lot of ways to talk to someone. Good luck, whatever you decide to do :)

Hey, I'm a girl currently finding out about the first time I like someone. I could tell he liked me since last year (may/june) and I'm about to go talk to him tomorrow to ask him out. I didn't do anything before as I have also had problems with "staying here" but also because of family issues where my parents are dragging me back and forth from one country to another. My parents have messed me up pretty bad, so I finally (it was about time) came to the resolution that I'm not going to let what their issues have done to me (divorce, creating trust issues and relationship issues mainly) stop me from pursuing what is important to me. Because of all this I wasn't sure if I actually liked him and if I did, should I even tell him, but I think now, putting everything past me, I can finally trust myself with a relationship. He might say no, and we might break up, and it might be incredibly awkward but I might move again soon and I want him to at least know I like him. I pride myself on being rather direct, and I ouldn't want to die without having left things unsaid. I know that it's clichto say "just talk to her, worst she can say is no", because it's not true. In the end, it's about you. This girl obviously means a lot to you, and me being a girl who's known about this guy liking me for months but making it look like I didn't (I didn't say anything to my friends either, I didn't want to be biased), there's a chance she does, and that she doesn't. I really wish I could help you more (maybe you can tell me more about her, your current relationship? most dating situations evolve from friendship, unlike friendzine rumors), but I guess my message to you is to hang in there. We all go through tough times (trust me, I also once had just one person keeping me where I was), and I'm guessing your problems are deeper than just this girl. If you don't want to ask her out just yet (completely understandable), try getting closer to her, or hinting at things you wouldn't with just anyone. And remember, it could always be worse. Here's a quote that suck with me, and is motivating me to say what I feel: "Hearts are often broken by words left unsaid" - maybe she's sitting on her bed thinking exactly the same thing as you right now, but doesn't dare say anything.

Update me on the situation, or wht you plan to do!

@nikoszn1

sounds like you might be younger... I will assume that in these ideas. If it is not true pls tell.

The simple way to find out is to talk to her. scary?? This is the first test for men in the game of love. Do we have the guts to talk to her? She will not like a guy that is so afraid of the world that he can not even talk.

That brings to the first issue, what to say or what to talk about. Be polite, and make sure to catch her eyes but not stare. The topic will not matter much as long as it is polite, if she likes you she will help with the conversation some. If it feels difficult and she does not help you by listening and asking something in return then most likely she is not interested.

Assuming you already know her name, "I wonder if it will rain today, I like it when the sun is out; what do you think?".

This is a really stupid question, with almost no value but it is polite and leaves a chance for her to talk. If she continues in a friendly way she is interested to talk to you and the ice is broken. Follow up with more and allow her to also. DO NOT TELL HER ANYTHING about how much you have a crush on her as it will sound creepy until you and she have been talking for days or weeks. By then if she is still talking to you; she will know without you telling. You can compliment her on her choice of clothing in some way, but not on her physical self at least not in the beginning as it can sound creepy.

good luck. tell us how it goes.