Defensiveness

Hello,

There has to be a reason you are feeling the need to be defensive. Are you sensing your partner is being critical of you or possibly you lack confidence?? I get that way (we all do) But I believe you likely feel that need due to how you are being treated. I'd have a talk with them and see if they can lighten up on you and let them know how you feel. I send you confidence and peace!

Blessings, Day