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The Relationship which i value the most is....

tranquilForever68 October 3rd, 2016

Time to say something about the relationship that you values the more in your life and you may specify the reason if you think that people should know about it. Waiting to see some interesting answers.

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Anxietymom84 November 22nd, 2016

Definitely family.

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tranquilForever68 OP November 23rd, 2016

@Anxietymom84 The best place where we are highly supported is in our family. And its a blessing to have a wonderful family. Stay happy forever <3

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November 22nd, 2016

Besides the deepening one with myself? I'd have to say that the next most important person in my life is someone who I never expected to meet in this lifetime. My imzadi (he's male) has been here every step of the way in my journey since early 2016. He's shown me that deep connections are possible, even if there's no romance or sex involved. He was the first ace guy I met as well, and he's helped me learn to trust men and people in general again. He's been going through some terrible things lately, and I'm beside him every day. We don't speak all that much anymore; however, my heart and mind are open to that possibility each day. We tell each other everything, he cares for me, relates to a lot of my struggles and triumphs, he makes me feel so comfortable here on this earth where I thought I had no one, and loves me with no expectations. In turn, it's helped me to love myself more and become the me that I've been hiding.

The next would be my family. They've been through all of my dark times, although unlike my imzadi, they didn't really understand what I was going through. I'm thankful that I have each and every one of them, even my dad who doesn't speak with me anymore. Then there would be other people in my life like the people I volunteer with, my therapist, people from the theater group, and 7 Cups listeners who believed that there was something more to my life that I couldn't see. These traits have gotten easier to notice as I've progressed.

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tranquilForever68 OP November 23rd, 2016

@NorthDUKEStar Lovely words. <3 And such wonderful people around you to care for you. I think you would ask for nothing more. :) And i whole-heartedly wish that all these people stay in you life forever and you continue to be happy forever <3

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8bluebird8 November 23rd, 2016

With my Best friend

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tranquilForever68 OP November 23rd, 2016

@8bluebird8 Yeah best friends are some one to whom we can confide anything. And its a gift to get lovely friends. I hope you have got one. Stay happy forever :)

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8bluebird8 November 24th, 2016

@tranquilForever68 thank you

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Pinkfluffyunicorns8706 November 23rd, 2016

I value my relationship with parents the most! They have been there for me as I went through an abusive relationship and have loved me through everything. They helped me get out and I couldn't have done it without them. They are amazing and I am so thankful to have them in my life!

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tranquilForever68 OP November 23rd, 2016

@Pinkfluffyunicorns8706 Im sorry for what had happened. But im sure your parents are simply amazing. Hold on to them. I wish you all happiness :)

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quickwittedWheel6511 November 23rd, 2016

One of my friends, I feel like I can be myself around her and she will understand where I'm coming from. She is also always available when I message her to hang out, I'm grateful I have a friend who wants to spend time with me.

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tranquilForever68 OP November 23rd, 2016

@quickwittedWheel6511 Yeah that has to be treasured. Yu cant find friends like them these days. Happy you have got such lovely friends. <3

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Navylady November 23rd, 2016

@tranquilForever68

I like this. The relationship I value the most is the one with my parents....ok so family cause my kids are pretty important too. The reasons why are so many it's hard to put into words. But both my parents and my kids love me for who I am. Not who I was, or who I might be, but who I am now. My folks are always there for me no matter what is going on. The good and the bad they always support me. Granted my kids are 9 and 13 so hard for them to be supportive, but I get the feeling that they would be.

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tranquilForever68 OP November 23rd, 2016

@Navylady Aww. Thats so lovely. What more can someone ask for. A supportive family and two lovely kids. I think they are gods's gift to you. I wish you stay the same forever <3

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Navylady November 23rd, 2016

@tranquilForever68

Awe thanks. They are Gods gift that is for sure. My family has always been supportive. My ex not so much.

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intelligentString November 23rd, 2016

I've got three:
My relationship with Christ
My relationship with my younger sister
My relationship with my friends here, especially @Moj, @FallenBird1234, and @BestNameEver1 Love you guys!

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tranquilForever68 OP November 23rd, 2016

@intelligentString Great. Happy to see that you have so many good people around you. Stay smiling :)

Moj November 23rd, 2016

Love ya @intelligentString heart

Fallonbird14 November 23rd, 2016

@intelligentString you are an Awesome friend! <3 hugss

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Ladybug11 November 24th, 2016

@tranquilForever68

I value my best friend and boyfriends relationship the most. They are both same person :) He was my best friend first and helped me though a lot of tough times... several years later we started dating and that was probably the best decision in my life. He is caring and loving and knows how to comfort me above all. What I value most about this is that when I am with him I can fully relax and all, it is like returning Home. I absolutely love it and believe everyone needs someone like that in their life.

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tranquilForever68 OP November 24th, 2016

@Ladybug11 Thats just lovely <3 Its really a gift to get such nice guys as boyfriend. Im happy that you have found the best person for your life. Now i sincerely wish that you people stay the same together, forever <3

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Ladybug11 November 30th, 2016

@tranquilForever68 Thank you so much :) <3 I really hope so too... but his family lives in Australia and he is only here in the UK with me because of University... After he finishes this year neither of us knows what he will do :( I really just hope our bond is strong enough... We got to know eachother all the way in Turkey in an International School, I followed him to Scotland to study as his girlfriend. We have such a long history i hope it doesnt end with me saying goodbye at the airport :(

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tranquilForever68 OP November 30th, 2016

@Ladybug11 Fortune has favoured you to stay together for such a long time and im sure it will favour you in the future too. You will get a chance to be with him after this and forever :) Its really heartening to talk to such lovely pairs <3

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Ladybug11 November 30th, 2016

@tranquilForever68

He is my world, its.... If I see something beautiful and I cant share it with him then its like looking at a photograph that lost its saturation... Life just seems colourless without him. And just that alone makes him so special <3 Ive been fighting for him for years, and he has been doing the same for me. We put so much energy and hope into Us that there is almost no way it could have been for nothing. So I hope you are right :) I really do hope that Lady Fortune smiles down on us for once

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ToastyBread November 24th, 2016

I love the hell out of my girlfriend Ali. She makes me happy when everything else in my life can't. I absolutely need her. she's beautiful, smart, funny, cute, sexy, and has the most brilliant smile that just makes me feel so impossibly good.

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tranquilForever68 OP November 24th, 2016

@ToastyBread Woah. Great. I love the way you love her. She should really be lucky to have you in her life. Keep loving <3

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ToastyBread November 24th, 2016

@tranquilForever68

Thanks.

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Skuhlm1 November 25th, 2016

The relationship I most value is the one I have with myself. By living and respecting myself, then I Vann love and respect others.

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tranquilForever68 OP November 25th, 2016

@Skuhlm1 Thats so lovely and yeah its undeniable that self-love is better than anyother love. Happy that you are able to love yourself somuch <3 Keep loving and be happy always.

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