The Relationship which i value the most is....
Time to say something about the relationship that you values the more in your life and you may specify the reason if you think that people should know about it. Waiting to see some interesting answers.
Besides the deepening one with myself? I'd have to say that the next most important person in my life is someone who I never expected to meet in this lifetime. My imzadi (he's male) has been here every step of the way in my journey since early 2016. He's shown me that deep connections are possible, even if there's no romance or sex involved. He was the first ace guy I met as well, and he's helped me learn to trust men and people in general again. He's been going through some terrible things lately, and I'm beside him every day. We don't speak all that much anymore; however, my heart and mind are open to that possibility each day. We tell each other everything, he cares for me, relates to a lot of my struggles and triumphs, he makes me feel so comfortable here on this earth where I thought I had no one, and loves me with no expectations. In turn, it's helped me to love myself more and become the me that I've been hiding.
The next would be my family. They've been through all of my dark times, although unlike my imzadi, they didn't really understand what I was going through. I'm thankful that I have each and every one of them, even my dad who doesn't speak with me anymore. Then there would be other people in my life like the people I volunteer with, my therapist, people from the theater group, and 7 Cups listeners who believed that there was something more to my life that I couldn't see. These traits have gotten easier to notice as I've progressed.
With my Best friend
@8bluebird8 Yeah best friends are some one to whom we can confide anything. And its a gift to get lovely friends. I hope you have got one. Stay happy forever :)
@tranquilForever68 thank you
I value my relationship with parents the most! They have been there for me as I went through an abusive relationship and have loved me through everything. They helped me get out and I couldn't have done it without them. They are amazing and I am so thankful to have them in my life!
One of my friends, I feel like I can be myself around her and she will understand where I'm coming from. She is also always available when I message her to hang out, I'm grateful I have a friend who wants to spend time with me.
@tranquilForever68
I like this. The relationship I value the most is the one with my parents....ok so family cause my kids are pretty important too. The reasons why are so many it's hard to put into words. But both my parents and my kids love me for who I am. Not who I was, or who I might be, but who I am now. My folks are always there for me no matter what is going on. The good and the bad they always support me. Granted my kids are 9 and 13 so hard for them to be supportive, but I get the feeling that they would be.
@Navylady Aww. Thats so lovely. What more can someone ask for. A supportive family and two lovely kids. I think they are gods's gift to you. I wish you stay the same forever <3
@tranquilForever68
Awe thanks. They are Gods gift that is for sure. My family has always been supportive. My ex not so much.
I've got three:
My relationship with Christ
My relationship with my younger sister
My relationship with my friends here, especially @Moj, @FallenBird1234, and @BestNameEver1 Love you guys!
@intelligentString Great. Happy to see that you have so many good people around you. Stay smiling :)
Love ya @intelligentString
@intelligentString you are an Awesome friend! <3 hugss
@tranquilForever68
I value my best friend and boyfriends relationship the most. They are both same person :) He was my best friend first and helped me though a lot of tough times... several years later we started dating and that was probably the best decision in my life. He is caring and loving and knows how to comfort me above all. What I value most about this is that when I am with him I can fully relax and all, it is like returning Home. I absolutely love it and believe everyone needs someone like that in their life.
@Ladybug11 Thats just lovely <3 Its really a gift to get such nice guys as boyfriend. Im happy that you have found the best person for your life. Now i sincerely wish that you people stay the same together, forever <3
@tranquilForever68 Thank you so much :) <3 I really hope so too... but his family lives in Australia and he is only here in the UK with me because of University... After he finishes this year neither of us knows what he will do :( I really just hope our bond is strong enough... We got to know eachother all the way in Turkey in an International School, I followed him to Scotland to study as his girlfriend. We have such a long history i hope it doesnt end with me saying goodbye at the airport :(
I love the hell out of my girlfriend Ali. She makes me happy when everything else in my life can't. I absolutely need her. she's beautiful, smart, funny, cute, sexy, and has the most brilliant smile that just makes me feel so impossibly good.
@ToastyBread Woah. Great. I love the way you love her. She should really be lucky to have you in her life. Keep loving <3
@tranquilForever68
Thanks.
The relationship I most value is the one I have with myself. By living and respecting myself, then I Vann love and respect others.