Marriage crumbling
Hey everyone I need so advice I am married for 11 years and together for 18 years and we been everything designed to breaks us up and I feel that I express memes of his he posted online that made me suspicious that he was straying and his excuse was it just fb so now that I spoken up to want him to focus on fixing our relationship and now that he has after a big fight online and exposing and being disrespectful. He now trying to make things right but I now feel like it’s a little too late for it. I feel like if I never snapped nothing would have changed. So thoughts
@azureSky1487
thoughts - unfortunately not everyone realises that emotional cheating is as damaging to a relationship or marriage as physical cheating. He said it was just fb. You call it straying. That is a fundamental difference in how you both understand what happened. Regardless of whether or not he understands emotional cheating, when you snapped and he saw you were hurt, he is trying to work on fixing the hurt. Maybe talking about boundaries and expectations can help you both understand what happened from each other's perspective to find a way forward. It is a difficult moment, I wish you well and hope you find your path to happiness.
@azureSky1487
im currently going through a similar thing. Been with my fiancé for 5 1/2 years and we have gone through a lot that would have broken most couples our age. We are currently on a break and i feel like it’s going to end up at the point where he wants to fix things and i don’t. I completely feel what you’re going through right now.