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What Does He WANT?

WoundedUnicorn January 10th, 2021

Hi all,

Ok so I had had enough of my ex's disrespect and mistreatment and had finally cursed him out and blocked him 8 months ago after allowing him in my life for about a year and a half. He had said he wanted to marry me and that I was his other half and you know all the crap they say whilst living with and being heavily involved with an "ex" for business, financial and litigational reasons.

Meanwhile she's posting all over social media like they were some happy couple. He believes I am some all-powerful witch b/c of a whole lot of weird, freaky and unexplained things that happened with us and he knows I practice. He is extremely controlling and a very angry and hateful person.

Please tell me why he drives by my work and just stares at me and even sometimes sits in the parking lot for a long time. This is even after I unblocked him to threaten him with a restraining order. What does he want? Does he miss me and is too scared to come talk to me b/c he knows he's wrong or is he just fucking with me? He knows I care deeply for him (i.e. "trauma bonded") despite all this so why he does he show up to tease me like this? Why won't he come talk to me?

Also, based off of how I know him and his personality, threatening him with a restraining order isn't going to scare him off as he still kept popping up.

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Asher January 11th, 2021

Thank you for sharing this with us. It thanks that this is tough and not there is no real answer that makes sense of it all.