Short term relationships hurt the most
I fell for this girl hard. She literally courted me. Then I let my guard down, become vulnerable and she decides to leave. I am doing NO CONTACT and it’s so difficult. I have read a ton “how to get back your ex”, to the point it’s becoming ridiculous. Sadly at the end of the day I want her back. I’m telling myself if I want her back that much then I can sacrifice a couple days. What I hope, is that at the end for 21-30 days my feelings would have been greatly reduced.
it's okay to miss ur ex, i do too. youre not alone. but it's best to focus on yourself. when the time is right, maybe she'll come back but it's best to move on and live life as if she never existed. it's best to learn to accept how things are and live ur life without her. know ur worth if things were toxic, and know that if it doesn't work out, then that there are much better people out there that do care. keep up w the no contact, and i hope things work out the way u want it to be.
No contact is for the best definitely, I just got dumped after three months if u wanna talk about it u can message me:)
So I feel the same, I was seeing a guy for 9 months. This has been one of my most painful break ups. He met my mum and my brother. We went on holiday. He helped me to move into my new flat. He said he came off dating apps but he never did and I caught him using one when we were on a date. I walked away for one min and I walked back to double check something with him and there is was... but I seriously miss him all the same. I am also doing no contact and I do want him back but I know it isn’t going to happen most likely...