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MyNameIsJustM October 2nd, 2023

My girlfriend left me two months ago, but it still doesn't feel real. I've known her since I was 8, and I really thought we were going to spend our lives together. I love her beyond anything. I don't know what to do now. I just think about her all the time, I can't enjoy anything. I wish she'd come back, because I really don't think I can live without her. We went through so much together, and I can't believe she's just gone. I don't know how to go on

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toughTiger6481 October 2nd, 2023

@MyNameIsJustM

you did not share WHY but that is a big thing to know in order to move on or try to fix this relationship.

do you have contact? did you share what she means to you?

HealingTalk October 2nd, 2023

@MyNameIsJustM

In my experience, there is no "how to go on".

Only time heals such a tragic loss.

Live your life the best you can. Accept that you might feel awful now and then.

I assure you that with time you will get well again. You will always miss her when you remember her, and it will hurt.

But you will be able to build a good meaningful life.

Talk and talk and talk with friends and family and here about how you feel.

Surround yourself with friendly, caring loving people.

You might post here every single day and join group chats and Sharing Circles to share how you are feeling, it will help you cope and not feel so helpless.

Therapy might also help much.

But pain is unavoidable for some time.

I wish you that you might feel better, little by little.

And that you build a great life in the future.

All the very best!

Marcelo

181005 October 4th, 2023

@MyNameIsJustM

I'm so sorry for your loss sweetheart. I can understand how difficult it would be for you to cope with your feelings when you already planned a future with her. Just have faith. Time heals everything. Just give some time to yourself. If you want to talk to a listener, I'll try my best to support you. Take care.

Sending lots of love and strength to you❤.