Recent Breakup

@lilacdanceshoes It's quite understandable how burdensome this is for you. No decent person likes the image of being responsible for what happens to another human being's life. You must continue to remind yourself that there's nothing wrong with caring for your own mental wellbeing. You are also taking him into consideration when you acknowledge that you don't think you are the right one to be this person in your life, that means you're allowing the right one to hopefully step in instead. You have to remember that in order for you to help others you must help yourself first. Always consider your own mental capacity on a certain day to handle other people's problems. If you take it all in while there's no space in your head to store, then nothing will come out of it but your own mental exhaustion. There's nothing wrong with putting yourself first, especially in relationships, as they are supposed to a safe haven for you, not a 24/7 hotline support.