Perfect girlfriend but still want to experience things, should I break up?
I hope I can keep this short. I am in a relationship with a great girl since some years already. We hardly fight, have a lot of fun together, connect really well. We don't need a lot of discussions because we can talk about things (which restaurant to go to and those little things) and find a solution. She's not that kind of girl getting mad for nothing. She really puts a lot of effort in our relationship. I know she really loves me.
Still, this is my first serious relationship and I am curious about how it would be with other girls and I can't turn that off. Additionally, I got to know another girl that seems pretty cool as well. She's more challenging than my girlfriend which makes it exciting and I know she likes me. But I don't want to cheat and sex is not what it's all about (although I am very curious about that as well since I've never slept with another girl).
I am racking my brain about breaking up or not. I know that I am with a perfect girl and there's not a lot that I could miss. Still, I feel for both sides and I see that both sides have pros and cons. Does anyone have experience with that kind of situations?
@inventiveOrange2894
You have to weight things out.
Your gf will always be there for you. You can always do different things really. And you'll have a loyal person besides you.
Is it worth it? To break up and get experience? Thing is "experience" is very subjective. It can go really wrong, it can be one night stands, but no other person will be able to give you the confort of your gf because you guys have a strong bond.
I see it as you two have an awesome relationship which is very rare. But if deep down you feel you won't be happy in the long run then be honest to her, you own her that
@inventiveOrange2894 I can see that your girlfriend is been really important to you. You definitely have a blessed relationship in this world of chaos. But right now, you seem to be a little confused with all this analysing that you'been doing ..and now you are kind of feeling that the grass could be greener on the other side. Take a pause, think this through, weigh the pros and cons of letting go and not letting go...then you see what you actually wanna do.