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Love Addicton

MissHope31 December 3rd, 2015

I think i am addicted to love. I am trying to let go the most especial person that i meet in my live. This person should me how wonderful life can be, respect my illness and had tried to do his best to fix me. I love him, but apparently i am a love addict. I place too many expectations on the other. I dream and delude myself with the impossible which leads to the other person to a depletion. So he made me understand my pattern of destructive and abusive relationships. I think that i hurt him. He hurt me too. He is the most beautiful mystery of my life. I dont know nothing about him. I dont know his complete name. I dont know where he lives. I think he is married. The story of our love is beyond any movie i have ever seen. He was the only man in the world that should me what loving a woman really means. He made me feel alive without touching me with a single finger. I feel like i lost the love of my life because of this horrible disease. I cant judge him, and neither he. What costs me more is accept my mistakes. I was naive, i did not protect me, I threw myself, heart and mind and soul to the Love i was expecting to fulfill me. It did not happen. I push, he push, we pushed ourselves to the breaking point. So i am by myself. And i think he went back to his wife. And well, thats life. Right? How can i let him go, without feeling so hurt? How can i move on, placing him in my heart for ever, but not the way i planned? Is there anytime in my future life where i can understand everything that happened to me? I hope so. But it sure made me feel better putting this on words. If you read this, thank you smiley. Cheers to all broken hearts broken heart. I really hopes it gets better!

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rozie December 4th, 2015

So glad it made you feel better putting this in words @MissHope and thank you for sharing with us. My heart goes out to you in all you are going through.To love deeply as you have is a profound experience, but we also risk losing that love. And when we do it is hard. We grieve for what we have lost and we miss the one we loved so much. We have regrets for the mistakes we made as you say. And young love and a first love seems to be the most painful.You speak of an illness too and I'm sorry to hear this.Please be gentle with your self and take the time to grieve. One day I think you will look back and understand more.Hugs!