How to Divorce a narcissist?
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How do you divorce a mentally and emotionally abusive narcissistic who believes they are always right and haven’t done anything wrong? There’s also a 5 month old child involved now.
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Expect the worst. Make sure to get a lawyer and talk everything over with them. Be mindful of your child and him trying to use the child as a pawn. I found an article about this. Here
Thank you Hopie, I am expecting the worst and that is why I am so fearful of starting this or bringing it up but I can’t imagine living the rest of my life like this. It’s not fair for anyone involved. I have contacted a lawyer online but I haven’t gone to much into it because I don’t want my husband finding out until I’m ready. I just feel like I’m setting off a bomb.
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@Saphirefly
Understandable! It is good that you're trying to be prepared. I am glad you're trying to get into a better situation for you and your child. You got this!
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I watched a video by Nature Dei on how she left an abusive relationship. The steps she used may be helpful.
Please get plenty of support first, don't expect it to be easy especially emotionally. Regardless of how abusive someone may be you'll probably still miss them like crazy.
Wish you healing! You don't deserve to suffer, you deserve a life if peace and love and this is definitely possible
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https://youtu.be/UdOrSu40SjU
hope this will be useful