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Changing number to finally move on drastic or necessary

User Profile: hopefulVision52
hopefulVision52 November 4th, 2019

have posted before how am struggling to move on from my emotionally abusive ex who tried to come back in my life to dissapear again and I was left back at square one my friend suggested I change my number for a fresh start so he cant walk in and out my life and I can move on and heal because I know hes no good for me is this a good idea

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User Profile: CommunityModCathy
CommunityModCathy November 4th, 2019

@hopefulVision52 That does sound difficult, I'm sorry to hear that you are going through this :( What do you think about your friends suggestion? Do you think it would be beneficial for you to do that? Why or why not?

I hope things improve for you soon! :)

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User Profile: hopefulVision52
hopefulVision52 OP November 4th, 2019

Am in mixed emotions she is right though he isnt respecting my feelings and cant just walk back in when it suits him I feel changing my numbers moving on for good @CommunityModCathy

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User Profile: birdiegogo
birdiegogo November 4th, 2019

@hopefulVision52, that sounds like a hard decision. I did this a couple years ago and I felt a lot of relief. I didn't realize how much fear I had every time I got a message wondering if it would be him. I was able to let go of that fear after I changed my number, so for me it was very helpful and healilng. It's a hassle yeah, but for me was worth it. Best wishes!!

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User Profile: hopefulVision52
hopefulVision52 OP November 4th, 2019

Yeah I have constant anxiety wondering when he will reach out if he will will it be when I have moved he doesnt even deserve that space in my thoughts @birdiegogo

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User Profile: birdiegogo
birdiegogo November 14th, 2019

@hopefulVision52 that's hard dealing with that kind of anxiety. Where are you now in this decsion? Have you thought about changing your number any more?

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