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Aw, snap. Another step closer to what I want.

TheSleech September 24th, 2016

If you've been following this slow-motion horror, you'd know that we're separating after 24 years but, for a number of reasons, we're currently living separately under the same roof. Today she announced that her parents' house has finally sold and she'll be moving into a rental with them while they build their new house. The probable date for her moving out is early November.

Even though I'm the one who pulled the pin, I guess I still harbour fantasies that she'll come to her senses and say "I'm sorry I'm such a pain to live with. Can we try again?" She won't (I've asked her.) and I can't continue to live with her.

Im keeping it together. But only just. I'm glad we've had to take time to get Mr5yo used to the idea without too much upheaval. I'm glad it's given us a chance to talk things out and start living separate lives.

Divorce has always been option 2 and I refuse to paint myself further into a corner trying to keep the marriage together. I can't live like this. I deserve some happiness. But I wish it didn't have to come to this.

Am I even making sense? I'm so confused.

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EleNergy September 24th, 2016

@TheSleech

I can't say that I know exactly what you're going through, or even your whole story. Divorce and any other kind of breakup is extremely difficult, but you're right - you deserve happiness. Sometimes our end goal doesn't always come the way we expect it to, but that's okay - that's life. I believe that you can get through this and make the right choices for you. Stay strong. <3

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