Newbie here

Just downloaded this app today in hopes that it can help me. Thought I’d share some of my situation. I’ve got BPD, anxiety, Aspergers, and depression, plus probably a million more that haven’t been confirmed. I was handling them really well and got into a stable relationship with my favorite person, but then my family stepped in. Legally I’m an adult, but they’ve controlled me my whole life so it doesn’t feel like it and I feel like I still have to do what they say. My mom hates my partner and refuses to tell either of us how to fix it. I would love to go no/low contact with her but to do that I’d have to give up the few family members that actually do support me because they’re my grandparents (her parents). I just can’t seem to figure out how to manage my life without losing the people I care about or continuing to let myself be mentally and emotionally attacked by my mother. I guess this is just a rant but if anyone has advice I’d love to hear it