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Longing for solitude...

funnyStrawberries5996 April 13th, 2015

I hate being a wife .... My husband always feels the need to tell me what to do as if I was some child he drives me effing nuts ... He corrects how I talk ... He litter ally tries to run my life ... I regret the day I ever met him because he suffocates me and never gives me alone time or privacy ... He forces his friends to come to our house instead of him going to see them at their house just so he can keep an eye on me .. Than if I talk to his friends he gets jealous cuz he's not the center or attention anymore ... My life sucks... Sometimes I just wanna run away because even if we get divorced he would try to prolong the process and drag that out too just so he could stay attached to me ... Ah fudge..( replace bad word here)...

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funnyStrawberries5996 OP April 13th, 2015

Forgot to mention he forced ( and she wanted to anyways) his mom to come live with us too and she's a nosey old bird always telling my husband everything I do like if my parents or sisters come to visit me ( that always starts arguments here) because he says how come they come over so much or why don't they come over when he is here ... I feel like I'm gonna snap soon ... I just want ALONE TIME... Aaaaarrrgghhh

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kissfromtherosesx1 June 4th, 2015

Like melting pot said, try to talk with him in a calm manner and discuss how you feel and maybe ways this situation can change. It sounds like he just wants to be able to be in control of everything because, maybe he's insecure about something. Maybe he has issues when it comes to trust, I'm not sure. That's just my guess! :) good luck to you ❤

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mentalmeltingpot May 27th, 2015

I'm really sorry you feel this way, maybe you could pull him aside and talk about how you need help and alone time and try your best to listen to what he has to say too.

mentalmeltingpot June 4th, 2015

Sounds like you need a break!