Lola and Lovely Space ๐
if you are not Tinywhisper11 or LoveMyMoonflowers: please do not lurk, read, upvote, follow along or post in this thread. thank you.ย
hi friend ๐ Iโve kinda been wanting to make this space to talk with lola friend for a while ๐ but me didnโt know if youโd be okie/ comfy with it ๐ย
Me wanted to check on you again today so i thought i should maybe try making this talkie space thread for us and asking you if your okie/comfy with it (?) ๐ย
Big hugs for you if okay ๐ย
@Tinywhisper11 I forgot to tag you :')
friend yesterday I left a note for you in your thread about the nightmaresโฆ ๐ But today i realised 7cups was beomg a meanie and they removed the thread ๐ So Idk if you saw my note ๐
Me been thinking about you friend and hugging you in my thoughts ๐ Howโs you today? ๐
@Tinywhisper11
hi lola beanie ๐ me wanted to check in ๐ howโs you? ๐ *sends hugs if okay* been thinking of you friend ๐
@LoveMyMoonflowers well..... I'm surviving๐ it's almost bed time and I'm scared to go to sleep
@Tinywhisper11
*hugs if okie* iโm sorry lola ๐ itโs because of the nightmares isnโt itโฆ :') iโm sorry ๐ do you think you can ask your carers to come sit with you a little? ๐ is there anything you think might help friend? :( ๐ย
@LoveMyMoonflowers I don't know I can call my carers at the touch of a button, but their not just my carers they care for everyone who lives here. I gotta do this myself, I'll call them if I do have a nightmare though. I guess at some point I'm gonna have to start dealing with my feelings and e!options and memories, rather than pretending they don't exsist. But it's hard I'm not sure how to deal with this
@Tinywhisper11
i understand friend ๐ but itโs okie to ask for help if you need it okie? ๐ i really really hope you wonโt have any of those scary dreams again ๐ but if you doโฆ (i really hope you wonโt ๐) then mhm me thinks it would be a good idea to call the carers ๐ย
itโs hard to know how to cope with feelings and emotions :( and on top of that the memories ๐ friend i think trying to though itโs definitely better than ignoring them ๐ and pretending they donโt exist. i guess when we ignore it all, they just kinda build up over time :( after a while, it can get super overwhelming. ๐
but when we try to address them and actually deal with them, itโs hard to know how to cope. i hear you lola ๐
i saw your post - the one asking about tips for coping with the nightmares :( and i read one of your replies that said youโll get to talk to your psychologist tomorrow. ๐ i really hope that will go well lola beanie ๐ย
iโm sending lots of love and strength your way, i love you ๐
@LoveMyMoonflowers I'm a bit to panicky to lie down yet, my carers have made me more tea. So gonna try think happy thoughts, now before bed ๐