@adaptableHouse7641
People aren't things to belong to anyone. Though it seems Masculine when a Man thinks of a woman as hers. When he says "you're mine". That sure is appealing.
Whereas one can do this when committed, I think people are evolving energy creatures. They get attracted towards you for certain energy that you carry and once they have no longer in them to absorb that energy, they wish to go a separate way. Though one of them would still like to be committed, the other would prefer the next energy calling over the current person.
So in my opinion, it's foolish to think we own a person. I believe there's no forever. How much ever is there, we need to live the relationship in the present and once time comes for us to part ways, we should be strong and open minded to let each other go. And wish and support each other in the upcoming journey.
Whereas, some people don't stay honest about this from the beginning of their relationship and one day just leave. That does cause the other person feelings of being used and hurt.