Where are our MEN heading to?
Where are our MEN heading to?
Who are they becoming?
Many men are disconnected from their hearts.
Many men are only living in their minds.
Many men are slaves of power, ambition & money.
Many men are extremely harsh on themselves.
Many men are carrying past emotional baggage.
Many men are emotionally unavailable to themselves.
Many men are unaware of self-love & self-care.
Many men are neglecting their emotional needs.
Many men are prioritising everyone except themselves.
Many men are hiding their true emotions.
Many men are becoming aggressive.
Many men are feeling suffocated & helpless.
Many men are burdened by responsibilities.
It’s time for men to go through drastic inner changes and heal their hearts on priority.
PS : Do you think that men must heal now? ❤️
@yashggorani
Hey just wanted to let you know that I moved your thread to the Mens Subcommunity as I thought this would be fitting here :)
Thank you.
@HopieRemi
Thank you ❤️ Seems like a perfect move 👍
@yashggorani
I am afraid you kind of mixed it all too much, like putting ZX Spectrum/Atari, IBM PC and Android OS/ChatGPT into a single specification.
I believe a man having all those traits does not exist. For example due to the fact that some of these behaviours are just opposite extremes.
There was a generation of men who were aggressive, dominating, "making no mistakes", emotionally unavailable and often treating women as a "lower kind".
There was a generation of men suffocated and poisoned by over-controlling behaviours of their mothers, lost in their heads, unable to take any action, passive and feeling helpless.
But I believe there is also a new generation of men, who are open wide to their emotional and spiritual lives, who know the direction they are going to, but who are open to realize and admit their mistakes, and think of women as not superior or inferior, but exactly equal.
Let's make some experiment here: You said, for example:
Many men are slaves of power, ambition & money.
Many men are carrying past emotional baggage.
Many men are prioritising everyone except themselves.
Many men are becoming aggressive.
Now, let's try to replace a word "men" with a word "women". Aren't those statements still true to the same point?:
Many women are slaves of power, ambition & money.
Many women are carrying past emotional baggage.
Many women are prioritising everyone except themselves.
Many women are becoming aggressive.
But still there is a version I would prefer much more. It is still saying the truth, I believe, but without gender prejudice:
Some humans are slaves of power, ambition & money.
Some humans are carrying past emotional baggage.
Some humans are prioritising everyone except themselves.
Some humans are becoming aggressive.
I believe it all should be about building bridges and finding a common ground, not building walls with barbed wire and electric fences.
@yashggorani men should learn to respect women and end oppressions against women
@Mindfullife
Please, excuse me, but this is Men's Issues section, intended to be a safe place for men.
Could we then, please, stop repeating the harmful, misleading and demanding narrative based on "all women are victims and all men are oppressors" misandric myth???
I believe men should respect women and women should respect men. That is equality.
World is not perfect, so it happens some humans are victims while some humans are oppressors. But still most humans are neither of them. And it is not just a matter of gender.
@jacek73 I couldn't agree more. I think that because of the ongoing stereotype that men are inherently tough, we've all been afraid to express our feelings and be openly vulnerable. Both men and women are perfectly equal to each other.