I need someone to help me find out if I'm gay
Hiddenvalley700
September 16th
I'm a guy and I don't know what my sexual orientation is because I don't know how to find out if I'm gay or straight. I just want to know, how are you supposed to find out what your sexual orientation is. What do I have to do to find out my sexual orientation? Please help me, I really need to know.
Aayla
September 18th
@Hiddenvalley700 First of all, don't worry, questioning can be hard but you can take all the time you need to go through it. You can try to imagine yourself in different romantic and / or sexual scenarios with people if different genders and see how those fantasies make you feel, take your time to come to terms with your physical and emotional response to those scenarios and determine what makes you feel good and what doesn't. Remember that in your fantasies no one is there to judge you, it's all about finding out what the best option for you is. Who knows, it might even turn out you're bisexual - there are more options than just straight or gay.
Best wishes!
