Confused bisexual/gay man
Hello I am new here and I am feeling confused about my true sexuality and I need someone to talk to about it that has been through the same thing I am going through. At first I thought that I was bisexual but I had my first experience and found out that I am feeling better about myself as a gay man. When I set and think about it I feel really at peace and happiness 💖 about myself. But I still feel an attraction to women on a physical level and this confusing me even more. So I don't know what I am feeling and how to interpret these thoughts and emotions and feelings and questions that I have about who I am as a sexual person.
@BeeFree82 Hello! I hope you are doing well. We have so many great Listeners that can help you sort through your thoughts about your sexuality! It may be helpful to browse for a Listener, but you can also join the general request queue. You can browse here! If you would like to find more specific Listeners that have experience with LGBTQ+, you can change the filters. Go to "More Filters" then "Topic" then "LGBTQ+ Issues." I hope this helps!😊
@fruityPond7887
Yes thank you.
@BeeFree82 Of course! We are here if you have any more questions!😊
@fruityPond7887
I'm beginning to feel a sense of inner peace and happiness ❣️❣️❣️❣️ about who I really 💋💋💋💋💘💘 am. A middle aged gay man. I don't feel the inner turmoil over my sexuality now that I am finally accepting my true sexuality. Deep down I have always known that I am gay. Plus by talking about it and interaction with others of the LGBTQ community I have a support system other than family to talk to. By expressing my sexuality I also get to allow my more feminine side of my personality to be freely and happily expressed. I'm sad that it took me so long to embrace my sexuality.
@BeeFree82 Yes! That's amazing! I'm so happy for you 😊 Be who you are and be proud of it! No time is wasted when you are finding out who you truly are! ❤️
I'm getting comfortable with the fact that I am a gay middle aged man and I am feeling better about myself. Finally accepting my sexuality is one of the best thing ever in my life. I'm finally free to be honest with myself I Am GAY and I Am Proud Of It.
@BeeFree82
i am very happy for you. That is a great feeling to finally accept who we truly are🌈
@BeeFree82 it took me a long time as well to accept the fact I am a gay man. I am happy now to share that I am a proud GAY man!
@pluckyPlane316
If I may what was the process of coming out like for you. And how did you figure out that you were attracted to men. Are you still questioning your feelings about being gay. I don't mean to ask doubtful questions but this is something that I am still going through because I am still in the process of coming out to those people who are around me. I am proud of you for accepting your sexuality. I have accepted that I am gay and I love ❤️ 😍 💖 ❣️ 💕 💘 it that I am finally free to love who I want to love ❤️.
@BeeFree82
I knew when I was pretty young that I was attracted to my own gender. I had some experiences in HS and throughout college which I found extremely enjoyable. However at the time I was in such denial…and suffering from internalized homophobia, that I could just not accept that I was gay. I struggled with this acceptance for many years until I finally just could not deny it anymore. Although I have accepted this of myself, to myself, I am still in the closet except for one friend with whom I shared. Hopefully in the relatively near future I will fix that and come out to my wife and others.
@BeeFree82 I am not questioning these feelings any longer. I did that for too long already…making excuses..denying…trying to fool myself…faking being straight…
I know I am gay.