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support room passive aggressiveness?

User Profile: angelheart2011
angelheart2011 3 days ago

(TW, i think)


I was in the support room, and somehow the topic gets turned to lgbtqia+ people. I was hearing people saying stuff like how they were sick of seeing lgbtqia+ stuff in their feed as a straight person. oh my god, I was shaking I was so mad. why does the world hate us so much? I was also hearing stuff like how 'the world need to move on to the next level' and that it's like 'they force you to support them'. if you were there, and you were saying this, and you see this, you know who you are. being told this hurts, especially with the condition of the world right now where I live. this is one of the only public places i'm allowed to be who I am and speak openly about it, and you're trying to take that away from me? 

anyway, has anyone else experienced this kind of passive aggressive stuff about the lgbtqia+ community? cause I hate it. 

(sorry for the long, angry rant, I was just really upset and hurt.)

love to all u guys. we can brave this scary world! <33333

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User Profile: angelheart2011
angelheart2011 OP 3 days ago

Note: we were talking to the people who were initiating the problem after ward, turns out they weren't trying to start a fight, their words were just 'interpreted wrong'. it still hurt my feelings and triggered me though, to the point where I was shaking and about to cry. let this be a lesson to be mindful what you say.   


User Profile: Aayla
Aayla 3 days ago
@angelheart2011 I'm terribly sorry but unfortunately not surprised that it happened. These hateful people make their way everywhere, including supposedly safe spaces. You're right to be angry, I am too. There should be no place for hate anywhere.
And there's no such thing as "meaning no offense" in this case. If they're not making an effort to understand who and why is hurting and how they're making the situation worse, it's their fault.
Did you manage to report the people who were making that type of comments?
User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 3 days ago

@angelheart2011 sits beside you and hugs you tightly ❤ I'm so sorry angel🙁 people do really need to becareful with their words, wether they were trying to start trouble or not, does not excuse this kind of behaviour🙁 especially not here. This should be a safe place for everyone, please never try to hide who you are, I'm right here for you ❤ hugs you again, my sweet little angel ❤

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User Profile: angelheart2011
angelheart2011 OP 2 days ago

@Tinywhisper11

thanks tiny 💛 it's nice to know some people care. *hugs*

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 1 day ago

@angelheart2011 I'm always here for you angel 💗and I already have 24 people on my hit list. I can always add a few more😉

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User Profile: angelheart2011
angelheart2011 OP 21 hours ago

@Tinywhisper11

hehe good. 😊

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User Profile: Rosyyyee
Rosyyyee 21 hours ago

I am really sorry to hear that. Hope you are ok. We are not alone though, you are not alone.