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Sexuality?

BeeWamble 2 days ago

Hi. Im a girl, and quite a while i notice that i have interest in girls. Not completely so....i would go in bi?


I live in a country where these things are forbidden and i always try to surpress my feeling toward those who catch my mind.


Im scared. To show love and even to confess. But she so gorgeous.


Have you ever have interest for those who actually arent gay?

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Aayla 2 days ago
@BeeWamble hi! I know it can be tough to explore your sexuality if you live in a country that's not acceptive of sexual diversity. But it's still your right to explore and get to know yourself better, you deserve a chance of a happy relationship as much as anyone else. So of course keep your safety in mind, but don't deny yourself the chance to explore that side of you if you have the opportunity.

As for your question, yes, unfortunately a lot of LGBT people share the experience of having feeling for someone that doesn't match your sexuality! It can be tough to accept, but it's still a formative experience: for me personally, the first time I had feelings for a girl it helped me figure out my bisexuality and I'm still grateful for the experience of being close to her even if nothing happened romantically. 
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BeeWamble OP 1 day ago

It is. I started to noticed when i was in highschool. But i never have the urge to explore my feelings. Since my country also a religious one, i woud consider my self also religious, so it would be triple kill for me.


I've been searching for hint of what sexuality my crush could be. Even she turn out to be bi, i dont really know what to do next. I guess i would never really have courage to started things. Not with this condition.


But yea, i love admiring her just from a far. I wouldn't even bother to talk to her if its not important. Im scared if she also turn out to be bi, and IF we develop feelings together, she would struggle. We would struggle. So its better me my own.

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