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Questions About Sexuality Changes

TSE2564 May 10th

I'd like to see if there's someone or a few people who can help me talk through some questions I've begun to have over the last year or two. They all have to do with discovering my sexuality and how it affects my marriage. I get anxious about asking a listener about it, and LGBTQIA+ people are easier to talk to about this sort of stuff.

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WarmLightXO May 19th

@TSE2564

Hello! I'm Elliot :) I'm a listener, but I'm queer and love chatting about LGBTQ topics, so you're welcome to message me directly or we can chat right here on this thread if you'd prefer. Figuring everything out can be beyond confusing, and I'm really glad you reached out about it.

bestKite8488 May 21st

@TSE2564    Hi.  I have similar problems.  I would be interested in how it is affecting your marriage.  I have found late in life that I am lesbian.  Have been married to a man for years.  He doesn't know, just suspects a little.  Where do I go from here?

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TSE2564 OP May 21st

I may not be the best person to ask. My wife won't accept that I'm polyamorous. But the first step is to tell him. And have a support group around you when it goes down. I didn't have a support group, and that make it much harder.

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