Help with queer relationship

I have a best friend. Many people do but for the whole time we've been friends I thought this relationship was something special. We started living together about a year ago and it's been amazing. Many people thought we are in a relationship (could be, both queer) but we had a few talks about it and we both didn't want to at the time. She's been in a few relationships in the past few years but all of them were kinda stupid. She always desperately wanted a bf. We hung out like before, going on our friend dates and doing stuff like normal.

This summer she found a boyfriend. It's been weird. Every time we hang out she reaches out to hold my hand. When we're at home in bed she also holds my hand and we have these long eye contacts. When we hug she pushes our faces together and our lips are so close I swear we could kiss. We've always been touchy but not in this way. I feel like now she has a bf she can show me affection and it can't be misinterpreted. But is she pushing away feelings for me? I'm really confused and don't know what to do. I don't wanna feel like some kind of a replacement when he isn't around.