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politeKiwi2674 October 22nd, 2021
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So I'm 39 now, married and have a daughter. Life should e great, right?

Well when I was 13 my brothers friend (16) messed around with me and from then I think I was bi. I experimented in high school and then hid it away for year's and years. I am.now 39 and have had 2 discreet relationships with guys and now wonder if it is more than bisexuality? My marriage is suffering. Anyone else been in a situation like this? Am I gay?

Please help

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SnailPurple November 8th, 2021
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Hello @politeKiwi2674

It sounds like you are questioning your sexuality while married. This can feel isolating and scary, so I am proud of you for seeking support <3

No one can tell you what your sexuality is. Only you can know for sure. While this may be frustrating, try to remember that you have your whole life to figure this out! This is not a race, so take your time and experiment with labels. There is nothing wrong with being wrong, so feel free to change your labels as often as you please. You don't even have to use labels if you would rather not! You are young. You have time :) Here are some resources on sexuality and figuring yours out.

Let me know if you have any questions!

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