How did people discover they were Aromantic?

Hi everyone!

So I recently discovered that I’m aromantic and it was a great moment for me 😊 I was just reading a story on ArchiveOfOurOwn when one of the characters mentioned being aromantic and out of curiosity I googled what it was. I've always had trouble with my sexuality and never really finding something that fit with how I felt so when I discovered what it was to be Aromantic I cried for a solid few hours 😂 I’m curious about how others came across with the fact they were Aro so feel free to share your stories!!