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Stability or adventure? ✨️ a LDP discussion

ouiCherie September 21st, 2023

Hi everyone,

Speaking about life, some find comfort in routine and security, while others thrive on novelty and excitement.

Ideally, a balance between stability and adventure can lead to a fulfilling life. But... If you are to choose one: Would you choose a stable and predictable life or embrace the unknown and seek adventure?


Cheers! 🩵🐨

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FeureVox September 21st, 2023

@ouiCherie Life's choices can be quite the journey, right?

It's perfectly okay to lean towards what feels suitable for you.
Sometimes, those early friendships and experiences can shape our preferences.
I will always want a stable and peaceful life since I have been in the war zone for a long time.

Whether you opt for stability or adventure, remember, it's your unique path to a fulfilling life. 💫🌟

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ouiCherie OP September 21st, 2023

@FeureVox

Well said 😊 to each their own.

And it make sense that you prefer stability and peaceful life. 👍

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DancingSongbird579 September 21st, 2023

At this point in my life, I would have to say I find more comfort in stability and predictability. Although I also love an occasional adventure!

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ouiCherie OP September 22nd, 2023

@DancingSongbird579

When you said "At this point of my life..." a question crossed my mind, do you think even a highly adventurous person would choose stability and a more predictable life at some point in life?

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jzheng2025 September 22nd, 2023

@ouiCherie Although I think that a balance between both is ideal, if I had to choose one I would pick a stable and predictable life. I want to be able to live comfortably with the people I love and care about. Having a stable and predictable life doesn't mean it is boring and repetitive. Your life can be interesting if you're with the right people. Having adventure in your life is also fun though.

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ouiCherie OP September 22nd, 2023

@jzheng2025

True. Sailing on a calm sea doesn't have to be boring. On the other hand adrenaline rush from unpredictable big waves can make life colourful, isn't it?

Perhaps the problem is when one prefers the comfort of stability but keeps getting or keeps choosing big waves, or vice versa?

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Tinywhisper11 September 23rd, 2023

@ouiCherie I would love to live a unpredictable, fun adventerous life 😁 just a dream ❤