Something that has been making me sad deep down
Hi beautiful people! Hope you're all doing well
I don't usually make forums( it's just not my thing) but I really felt like I needed to talk to you about something( and I'm sure not a lot of people are gonna even see what I said lol) but I want you to know that I love you all and I think that you guys are the best. I have a lot of members who are so respectful and lovely that I'm so grateful to know and to talk to them.
But I want you to know that us( I mean listeners) we are humans and we have our own problems and issues but personally I come on 7cups to help people with issues like myself because I know the struggle and the pain, so the thing is please try to be gentle, try not to mock and have inappropriate chats with us, I mean we are truly here to help and support you all but sometimes my heart gets broken when a member mocks what I said or underestimate what I went through ( you can see them in the categories in our profiles)... I know you are all going through something and you can be frustrated and we understand you guys but please consider our emotions too.
Thank you to whoever that read this, it was long and probably boring lol
@tiamishere
I read your post and it is a shame that your chat members are not respectful of your own issues ... i actually appreciate my listener has had similar experience and can relate but also call me out if i am being a pity party .....
i think many just want to not deal with things and when someone else has been through and came through something it reminds them they may have some reflection to do they do not want to do.
Thank you for sharing this, my Heart goes out to you. I have experienced some truly awful chats and cried over the way some people have turned and attacked and threatened me because they didn’t like what I said or didn’t like that I couldn’t help them
We are called Listeners, we’re here to listen, not solve anyone’s problems or give them money (I’ve been asked that a lot as well)
And you’re absolutely right! We are humans with emotions and feelings too and being mocked or threatened when we’re just here trying to help others on our own free Time can really hurt
Thank you again for sharing and if you want to talk about anything you can leave me a message
May you have better and more understanding members chatting you 🪷✨
