Stress from School
I never really know how to start an entry, so I guess I'll just start typing about all my issues and see where that takes me.
In school, I'm known to have the best grades in class (a perfect average). And sometimes it can be really stressful to maintain that average and reach the standard my classmates expect of me. Because of this, I feel like I am getting more disconnected from my family and I feel that I'm not a good daughter anymore.
Additionally, even though I'm not being bullied anymore, I still think about it so much that it gives me stress too.
Lastly, I have a speech contest tomorrow in my Chinese school, and for some reason I decided to talk about what happened in school, the bullying. I really hope I win, but it makes me nervous sharing that out with so many other students, especially since one of my classmates in Chinese school also goes to English school with me.
I guess that's it, feel free to leave me a comment or anything. It would really make me happy ☺️.
You’ll be fine
Maintaining high grades isn’t easy. Maybe someone will come up who will upstage you. No matter how smart you are, there’s someone smarter.
Doesn’t matter. You’re clearly winning, and working hard for it. That’s great. You’re realising your potential. That’s the important thing. Doesn’t matter what the rest of the world thinks.
The greatest gift you can give your family is being successful in life. That’s what they also want.
You’re doing the right thing. Keep at it:
You're doing great. Sometimes I feel that everyone expects perfection from me in everything. And it's quite stressful. I can relate to you.
Prioritizing what is important to you and what gives me more happiness and satisfaction is important. We have limited time but we got loads to do. In your case, you're trying to ace everything and you need to spend time with your family too. It seems like if we get one we lose another. But it's not about winning or losing. Just pay attention to things that need your attention and take time out for yourself.
Think of it like this.. 5 years down the line will you regret not getting the best grades or not spending time with your family?
I'm not saying grades are a waste. I'm just saying be kind to yourself and don't push yourself towards perfectionism.
You're a good daughter. Your parents must be proud of you.
Start with the ones that you can control rather than those you can't control like how other people perceive you. We can't make everyone agree that we are trying enough. Dont lose yourself while trying to meet everyone expectations. Keep smiling!
Hope this helps ❤️