Backstabbing
I invited a friend to a family dinner and she said that she was too sick to come. Yet later on I look at her Snapchat and she is hanging out with friends. I told myself if she has time to do that then she has time to come to my family dinner. I just don't understand people sometimes. I know that she did not do it intentionally, but still it stung a big. But I validated my feelings so thats all that mattered. However, my capacity to understand peoples actions is becoming very scarce.
The same thing has happened to me too, I just didn't speak or arrange plans with the person unless they did first next time
I had a best friend since kindergarten and then when I broke up with one of my exs, her friend started dating him and she wasn't always one to go out and get high or drunk and party but then she started blowing me off to go hangout with them because I wasn't "fun enough" and she would always make up excuses for us not to hangout. We are no longer friends anymore