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blissfulFlute808 October 31st, 2022

So, I get that the forum can have posts for positive parts of the day, but this thread is just about talking about what we're grateful for despite the difficult situations, maybe at work or college, or dealing with people who are not respectful and seeing what we're grateful for that has been supporting us through it.

I think one thing that always comes to mind is support systems and the chance to still be there for others. Without having my parents to talk to it's unlikely I could have received advice from the perspective of someone who knows me and has watched over me grow over decades.

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AidenorQiangde November 2nd, 2022

@blissfulFlute808

Hi. I totally get the situation you are in right now. We all have to live through difficulties in life and that's what makes us better. First of all, you are not screwed up. Your life is meaningful. Even though you might not feel it, there is always someone that cares about you. You are someone else's reason to move forward.

Secondly, if they don't care about you, let them be that way. Find people who you really enjoy and care about your feeling. Feeling happy is not pointless, in fact, it is extremely important. What is the point of coming to this world and live a life? If we know we will someday return to where we came from, why not do things that makes you happy? 50 years later, when we become old people, we can recall all the fun things we did back then and laugh about it. I always believe that if you are happy, that is one day, you are sad, that is also one day. We have to spend this day after all, then make it a happy day. We didn't came to this world to be the best, or a super successful person. We came to see how the fish swims in the water, how birds fly in the sky. The society needs you. Face everything with a positive mood, and you will get positive feedbacks!
Trust me, things will get better. The dark cloud can't stay forever, it will leave. Walk into the sunshine and get rid of all the unhappiness. You are the BEST!!!! You really are. Everything will be fine, trust in yourself!
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