Mother In Law
I’ve got a bad/ toxic one. Any advice from those who have gone before me? Can’t count on husband. Would do anything not to have this problem.
@dapperCity8678
These situations are HARD, but if you love your husband and have no plans on ending that relationship, the key is tolerance. You don't have to like or be her best buddy, but if you can just tolerate being around her, then maybe it will be ok.
For me, I tried to have to be around her the minimum to keep things peaceful. I don't know the details of how she impacts your relationship, but sometimes people like to push our buttons and make us uncomfortable. Don't let her win and make you upset. Focus on the relationship with your husband. You being happy around her is the best way to show her, she is not going to get to you.
Sending you all the best vibes for patience and peace ❤️
Oh thank you SO SO much! Yes, very hard. She does make me uncomfortable on purpose. She is relentless, too. It’s bizarre! I think you know what I mean. She definitely says cruel things to me! They would affect anyone. Like blaming me for something I ate in pregnancy that caused my babies food sensitivities. Ugh! She says terrible things like this to me every time I see her.