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CalmRosebud April 22nd

This message is for Fristo.

I noticed your posts are now question marks, but I know you exist.

Maybe you were the newbie who entered the Sharing Circle today and no one noticed you.

If so, I personally am so sorry I didn’t give you more attention.

I value you, everything you have done for 7 cups, and I know there is much that you have done that I am not even aware about, and I know that you are dear and an inspiration to many on here.

I just wanted you to know that.

Love and Courage,

Rose

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@CalmRosebud I appreciate the ♡ you put into this post for Fristo. I miss him too. I have always wanted Fristo to do well on 7 Cups and in his real life. I always want him to grow, thrive, be happy, and do great things. If he's at that point, I am so proud of him and happy. I hope he is happy but I also hope he knows that he has friends here who care and love him. I am always ok seeing people's account where they are on break for self care, because I know it means they will be break on their own time. ♡ But when I see where it is like the person's account does not exist, it just brings other feelings. At the end of the day, wherever @Fristo is, I hope he is well and safe. I hope he is happy. It would be great to have his presence back on here, but ultimately I want what's best for him and if it meant him leaving for the betterment of self and his life, then I support him. *sighs* 

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CalmRosebud OP April 24th

@YourCaringConfidant

Yes, Your Caring Confidant,

Thank you for your nice message. I have been working on “letting go” of people who are bettering themselves, which is a wonderful thing. To me, it was sudden, but probably, for Fristo, it is something they were thinking about for awhile. A person does have to live by their priorities. I have had to step away at times to prioritize other projects and things in my life, so I understand that. Also, some people operate in a way that they would like a clean break. And, that’s ok too. I think what I am learning about myself from this is that I do care about people on this site as people, and that I am learning for myself to adjust when they prioritize other things in their life. It’s ok to live our lives fully and fill our lives with rewarding and meaningful activities. I feel at peace now that Fristo is all right wherever he is, and where ever he is, he is doing good things.

Now my job is to continue to do good things myself and try to help others in the best ways I can find.

Thank you for your note. It was affirming, not only of our choice, to go, to stay, but also of us as people, that we will do what is right for each of us.

I feel it’s ok that I care, and so I thank you for graciously pointing out about free will, which is very important. Here’s three cheers to growth for all of us!

Much Love and Courage always,

Rose

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@CalmRosebud Ohhhhh Rose, you're an extraordinary person and you do so much to help others. I'm super proud of you and all you do. You are selfless and it's a beautiful quality.  ♡ I know for some it seems crazy, but I can relate because I'm that person who finds it very possible to care and love "strangers" online. But how can it not when you spend months or years getting to know someone. I've fallen to ♡ many beautiful people on here and always want what is best for them. I agree 100% with you-- what may be sudden for us may very well be what someone has pondered about for months or years. 

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ShadowFaerie April 24th

Sending lots of positivity, good vibes, love and cookies to Fristo

🍪 🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪

If you have left, I hope many wonderful people and adventures await you! Your positive generous spirit is infectious! I wish you every good thing ❤️


To everyone who misses Fristo, I wish you comfort and all the sunshine, positivity and smiles that Fristo worked so hard to spread here on Cups. We honor all of Fristo's hard work here by spreading smiles 😁

And cookies 🍪

There isn't much that can't be made even a tiny bit better with cookies. 🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪


Leaving a basket of hugs and cookies for any and all that need or want them ❤️🍪❤️🍪❤️🍪❤️🍪❤️🍪❤️🍪❤️🍪❤️🍪❤️🍪

Whyme3112 April 26th

Why did this happen all of a sudden.. Fristo.. you were the first friend I had over here. You are really awesome cookie monster.. we really miss you a lot. 

(Makes me think we could sing like this for you so that you could hear us) Hope you are doing well fristo


Thanks for this forum post CalmRosebud

Tulipsmile April 27th

@CalmRosebud

Hey Rose thank you so much for your post and your wonderful kindness  .

@Fristo🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪

I hope you doing well and we are all your family and friends hopping you a wonderful life ,you were a wonderful supporter and friend and listener for everyone here 🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪

I hope you see Rose post 🙏🌷

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Tulipsmile April 27th

@Tulipsmile

@CalmRosebud

Tbh Rose when I noticed fristo disappearing i remember this before 

https://www.7cups.com/forum/projectsandevents/LivingwithLeaders_2290/FristoRetires_277389/

So Idk 

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CalmRosebud OP April 27th

Tulipsmile,


Thanks for posting the link to this interview! I am gratified to know that Fristo is a teacher. He has taught me much about kindness and acceptance. When he wrote he hopes to create a revolution of kindness through his teaching, that resonates with me. Also, I understand the teaching life, very high demanding at times! I am so grateful for all the lessons I have learned here and also thankful for the kind way people here accept people moving towards whatever it is fills their lives with meaning. Fristo! What a spirit of delight. As I told Fristo once, his name reminds me of a sparkling soda pop, refreshing and fun!

Bluered200 April 27th

@Tulipsmile Thank you for sharing this! There is attachment to everything and maybe fristo is attached too to 7 cups! Lets support them if they want to leave 7 cups!

Hope they flourish! 

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Silverwillows8128 April 27th

@CalmRosebud

I am glad Fristo has someone like you to remember and recognise them

sky2Ocean20 April 28th

@CalmRosebud

Thank you for putting this up. Yes, fristo is my inspiration too.. I hope they are safe and will return soon. 

RelaxedPanda007 April 28th

Thank you for all your help and encouragement as a new listener, Fristo. ❤️ I miss you! :(

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Bluered200 April 28th

@RelaxedPanda007 

Yes fristo encourages a lot

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Zeraphim April 28th

Fristo, I hope you're okay. I miss your presence here 😟 🫂 🍪

Gabrielamtineo May 13th

@fristo i hope you are ok and happy, we miss you so much! I had leaned a lot from you but I couldn’t say it before, you are an amazing human being and I’m glad that I had the opportunity to meet you and interact with you, thank you for everything you’ve done in 7cups ❤️❤️❤️ I know you want us to be kind and every time I am I think about you being proud. Thank you for everything @fristo we will wait for you ☺️❤️

Peacedaniel May 13th

This is beautiful ❤️

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PetiteSouris May 27th

@Peacedaniel

Indeed, it is a very loving post. It conveys the impact Fristo has left on those he encountered. I am confident that he is well, and have moved on to new and beautiful paths in his journey on the third rock from the sun.

✨♡✨

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