My smoking habbits!!
Hello,
I don't know where to start? Well, am married for three years now I have a 2 YO son, and used to smoke behind my husband's back until two days ago he found out about me smoking AGAIN and now he is considering divorce and throwing me in the streets...! My mental health is going downhill because I think I am bipolar, because my dad and my sister have bipolar and my symptoms are kinda identical when it comes to anger issues and depression...! Please help me fix what I've done! FYI (My husband smokes too)
@lovingSea
Pitty you are not financially independant because my answer would be: leave him. A "husband" who reacts like that is not a husband to have and a person to stay away from. You need people who appreciate you for whom you are not hypocrit macho "persons"...leave him...
@GreyMirror unfortunately I'm not financially independent even though its hard during this pandemic to find a job
@lovingSea
Yeah so that is why you are his slave for him to make anything out of you...
@GreyMirror am speechless and scared at the same time, I cannot talk to him or talk to my parents about what is happening to me! Dealing with my anger issues took me to a whole new level...!
@lovingSea
You did this to yourself, choosing men for their "financial security" and what you get? You get stuck with assholes who misstreat you...get the plums away from him and slowly build your own life..
@lovingSeae
Every person should ve entitled to financial independance or the principles of freedom do not apply...
@lovingSea
Picture this scenario, if I had any money I wouldhave rescued you out of his clutches and having a good relief laugh by now...
Insted you sit there and suffer with the abusing money controlling monkey bastard...
@GreyMirror am always thinking of running away from him but I can't because of my 2 YO son I can't abandon him
@lovingSea
You obly have one life, you are not the only or first mother to abondon her child...what will become of your child if you stay? Learn his values anyway?
Oh boy people are stupid...
For the poor kid it is the same fate and same thing whether you stay or not, you sealed the kid's fate when you decided to have him...