Hes going to leave

@powerfulMaple1852 Hi, you will definitely able to stop and you will definitely able to focus on your happiness now that your cheating boyfriend is leaving. By him leaving you will have more power and control on yourself and frankly coming here and posting this already shows how much you want things to change. You will stop checking the phone records(borrowing from your analogy) when the phone records means nothing anymore, so just wait and see because everything is going to be okay :)

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