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turning 21 soon
anthystruly February 1st
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like the title says, my bday is coming up very soon! one problem is that im not looking forward for it

ive been stuck in a metaphorical hole for 3 years now with the same problems which are: depression, low self esteem, and no social life

ive tried everything from changing my lifestyle, to going to therapists and nothing seems to be improving in a meaningful way

i really hate and loathe how much of a pathetic loser i am


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Heather225 February 1st
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@feefus

t's totally okay to not be excited when you're dealing with all that. Just know you're not alone in this struggle.  Speaking from experience, I can say even though it doesn't feel like it now, things can and will get better. :sparkles:

Our community is here for you! We're always here to listen without judgment, vent with, or just sit in the heaviness together. Giving this a bump so more people can chime in, too.

anthystruly OP February 1st
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@Heather225 thank u for ur encouraging words and bump heather!

Countrygirl095 February 11th
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Hi, first of all, you're not a loser and I'm proud of you for coming on this platform and sharing your feelings with everyone and happy 21st birthday. I think we all feel that way once we turn 21 but just remember that life is like a car and in life, we're gonna have detours that try to detour from the main goal but eventually we make it to our beautiful destination

anthystruly OP February 13th
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@StompingOnCP thank you for the bday wishes. even if like if a journey i still feel like im missing out

Countrygirl095 February 13th
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@feefus I'm a messageif you always wanna talk to me about it

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