You are coward to do self harm!

It's been a long time since I've experienced doing something like self harm.

It's not something which a person does intentionally, usually when I started talking to people who have gone through something like that are such soft hearted person who doesn't want to harm anyone else.Either from speech or action.

So, they end of hurting themselves cause they are not numb inside. They get hurt too, they also feel being used, cheated.

Most of the people I've talked to consider them as weak. And their actions irrelevant. I feel that the perspective should be changed.

They need more sensible words than just cowards...